Communication – The Blog

How to deal with people who are just plain wrong

  Do you recognize this scenario?     You are talking to someone who just won’t listen and is completely wrong. You know the kind of person: someone who is stubborn and keeps arguing with you and dismissing your (excellent) … Continue reading


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Why you need to know what people’s values are

  Do you know the difference between objectives, values and behaviours? It’s a very important distinction.   ◦    Objectives are what you need to achieve◦    Behaviours are how you do it◦    Values are why you do it that way      Values tell you how people … Continue reading


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Was Nelson Mandela exceptional?

  There were many things about Nelson Mandela that made him the man he was. I’m going to focus on just one, his communication skills.       One small example   During the divorce between Nelson and Winnie Mandela, … Continue reading


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Never give up trying to communicate effectively

  Have you ever been in one of those situations where you feel the person you are talking to is just a complete idiot?   Join the club.     If you’d like some help dealing with those situations, read … Continue reading


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Emotional intelligence – An easy way to improve it

  How good is your emotional intelligence? And does emotional intelligence help anyway?     And if it does, can you improve it?       Emotional intelligence     This is your ability to   • Identify emotions (both … Continue reading


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A few useful phrases for those awkward situations

    A client of mine recently asked me what he could say in a difficult situation and remain truthful whilst not hurting the feelings of his friend.     It reminded me of a couple of very useful phrases … Continue reading


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Ghastly Gifts and Cracking Christmas Comebacks

  How to deal with unwelcome Christmas presents You know the situation – you are sat there on Christmas day with relatives you haven’t seen all year and it’s time to exchange presents.   You had absolutely no idea what … Continue reading


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What’s the worst presentation you have ever seen?

  Why was it so bad? Was it boring, annoying, infuriating? I guarantee you know it was bad because of the emotions you felt while you were there.     When you are talking to someone else or even presenting … Continue reading


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